The Idea Zone

General Style in Conversation and at Drjays

While having the gift of gab may be thought of as an asset in certain situations and in certain professions such as a sales associate at DrJays, there’s a clear distinction between being someone who is chatty and someone who is gossipy. Being someone who is talkative and adept at carrying on a conversation is generally someone who is highly valued for those skills; however, being someone who can’t be trusted with information and is likely to spread rumors, causing more harm than good with their conversations, is looked upon by most as a social nuisance.

There’s a clear distinction between people who are great conversationalists and talk because they enjoy social interaction versus those who carry on conversations strictly to gather information and spread rumors. That’s why it’s best to make sure that you guard any sensitive information that you may have and only share that information with people you know will keep it safe. In general, when dealing with sensitive information it’s best to keep matters to yourself; however, if you must divulge information, be sure it is only with those who are required to know and among those you trust.

Engaging in the spreading of rumors is immature and can damage a person’s reputation. It’s also hurtful and often results in the loss of a relationship and respect.

When discussing a highly personal topic with a friend, family member or colleague, it’s best to consider how much information you want to divulge and the best place to share this information. More often than not, highly sensitive and personal information is best shared in a secluded and private setting to preserve the information and the person’s reputation. Whether the conversation takes place in a face-to-face setting or over the phone, having a quiet and private place to share personal information is key.